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The problem is that in many Indian families, many may still believe love comes after marriage.
This is of course due to the arranged marriage which is prevalent among many segments of Indian society regardless of geography.
One of the most telling incidents occured more than a year ago when a friend was using online dating site OKCupid.
A man messaged her, telling her how attractive he thought her “Latino tan” was.
Question: Do all white men think all Black women are hoochie mama, welfare, child bearing, uneducated b******?
Answer: No, I don’t think all white men feel that way about Black women.
This creates a conflict with many white men, especially those from my generation (age 47) or older.
It comes from a mix of racial AND gender stereotyping.
Many Americans hold an ideal that regardless of social standing, culture, economic status, educational background and religion, love will overcome all these problems and make everything ‘ok.’ This can be true if and only if the couple have extensive discussions before marriage about expectations after marriage and into the long term, such as both partners’ career aspirations, family planning, traditions, values, choosing the place to live among many other variables.
Of the 3.6 million adults who got married in 2013, 58% of American Indians, 28% of Asians, 19% of blacks and 7% of whites have a spouse whose race was different from their own.
The overall numbers mask significant gender gaps within some racial groups.
Among blacks, men are much more likely than women to marry someone of a different race.
Fully a quarter of black men who got married in 2013 married someone who was not black.